Saturday, January 2, 2010

SQUIRTING.....

Did you know that almost ALL women secretly dream about the man who can make her explode with powerful orgasms?... But Very few men learn how to use their fingers to give her earth shattering squirting Orgasms.


I Decided to write about "Squirting" because Some women don't know how to orgasm, while others need little more than a whisper in order to reach orgasmic heights. And then there are the others those women who have the capability to squirt their juices all over the bed, the floor, or even you. if you've got yourself a woman who is very sexually in tune with herself, and would be willing to let you manipulate her vagina until she ejaculated all over you, then today's tip is going to leave you soaking wet. A woman's ejaculate is expelled from the urethra, the same place where urine comes out from. And although studies have found that the clear liquid is not urine at all While there are some women who can ejaculate through clitoral stimulation, or through other sex play (penile penetration or even breast-sucking), the most effective way to achieve this outcome is through G-spot manipulation with your hands.
I'm not implying that you should head stright for the g-spot Start out with some foreplay and lick her clitoris first Once she begins to get excited, insert two fingers inside her vagina, palms facing up. But don't stop licking her clitoris (unless, of course, you can't do two things at a time). About an inch or two inside the vagina, you will likely hit a round ball of skin that's the G-spot. Keep stroking the area with pressure it may start to become more solid just keep doing what you're doing.(pussy getting wet)If u feel like your about to urinate it's near impossible for you to pee and you should just let go, begins to reach orgasm and starts to ejaculate, dont hold back, just let it go. prepare yourself to either be greeted by a light gushing liquid or an actual drenching spray. Both are normal and the amount of liquid can reach anywhere from a teaspoon to a cup, lol yup that much!
Achieving the almighty squirt may not be as simple as described above; it may take some experimentation, persuasion and different positions. As well, you may want to try stimulating other parts of her body while you head inside.And, of course, there are women who can ejaculate through sex alone so find a positon where the dick hits ya g-spot, And if all else fails, you can always call on a vibrator to help your woman get in touch with her juicier side, vibrator and dick the same time will have u leaking like crazy.... Every woman has the ability to reach incredible heights of orgasm. It's up to you to convince her to let go of her inhibitions and squirt all over you.......

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Anal Sex.......

I know some of Y'all are thinking yuck "ANAL SEX" i would never try that, trust me i know i said the same thing till i actually tried it myself, But If you look at it We live in a very butt phobic culture. Look at our language rude, inconsiderate people are "assholes" and uptight, truth is all kinds of people from all different sexual backgrounds get into the joys of "Anal Sex" And for good reason it feels good. The anus and the rectum are sensitive areas. There are a wealth of muscles and nerve endings around the anus and the right kind of touch can feel fantastic. You can and should try anal masturbation It’s nice to experiment alone first so you can control the pace of your explorations, Anal sex should not hurt. If it hurts, that's your body telling you to back off, I know i know your worried about becoming in contact with feces But anal play engages only the first few inches of the anus and rectum, which do not store feces. but you can find that a thorough wash in the shower does the trick for removing any surface grime. If you’re fastidious about cleaning, try an Anal Douche with regular room temperature tap water a couple hours before you have "Anal Sex" okay so now we got the basic out the way, "Anal Sex" once you have tried it the right way you would love it trust me, cause i know i love it!
So what’s the "right way" to do anal sex?
*Relax Bend-over beginners need to learn to relax themuscles that ring the anal opening,
*It’s important that the person being penetrated control the pace of play. Nothing should ever be forced or hurried in anal play, and partners should stay in close communication about what feels good--and what doesn’t.
*Dont be cheap on the lube, The fragile lining of the anus does not lubricate sufficiently for pleasurable anal sex. Add more lube than you think you need. Generously lube the anus
*Go slow Especially at first, when your toy or finger first enters the anus, your partner will need some time to adjust to the sensation.
*But the number on one best way to have anal sex is on ya back, its less pain that way.
SO now that u know a little bit more about "Anal Sex" its time for action, there many toys you can buy to try with before actually putting a big dick in there, here i will name some, cause of course i have one!
*Butt plugs. Butt plugs (also called anal plugs)
*Anal beads. Anal beads cause the sphincter muscles to contract, which can sends me into many orgasm
*Anal dildos. A thin anal dildo is good to start with, but you can use a dildo of any size
So Ladies and Gents, Go out There And EXPLORE....... BE OPEN MINED........

Tuesday, December 29, 2009

Masturbation For The Ladies!!

Masturbation means to stimulate yourself in a sexual way. This can be done by hand, or with sex toys. If you don't know exactly what it is you like or what it takes for you to reach orgasm, it's a good idea to practice on your own.
Example me i MASTURBATE 3times a day, you have to explore ya body for you to know as a women what you like, and what turns you on! i encourge you to masturbate at lest once a day explore ya body ladies...

Here are some of the many ways women masturbate:
*massaging the clitoral shaft or hood, labia or Mons
*rubbing or rocking the vulva up against objects (like a pillow, the edge of a chair or the edge of the bed)
*inserting fingers or sex toys into the vagina or anus,
*using a vibrator or other toys to stimulate the clitoris,
*using a faucet or shower head for clitoral stimulation (My favorite every morning)
*pressing and unpressing the thighs tightly together

Ladies we can masturbate in all kinds of positions lying down, sitting up, standing up or squatting, As many men do, many women will sexually fantasize during masturbation.
And just so you know, most women, statistically, do masturbate, whether they're 15 or 55, single or married or otherwise partnered. Sex researchers even have fetal imaging which has shown fetuses masturbating in utero, so it's safe to say that many of us probably started masturbating before we were even born.
And since not only do we all like different things or have more or less sexual response in different places, but we also all will often not be in the mood for the exact same things every day, or find the same techniques get us there from year to year, it gets even more complicated. What works for any of us tends to be the things we discover just by experimenting with our own bodies, over a decent period of time. Often, we'll find things that work for us quite accidentally in trying something, and can even surprise ourselves sometimes. But make sure you're aware that the idea that our sexuality and our sexual pleasure is something we discover ALL of in just a few months or years stands very counter to most peoples' sexual realities. Before we hit a home run, we usually have to strike out a few times..

Women's Pleasure.....

Most women do not have orgasms during penetration. So, why don't they? What is the secret? Men love sex whenever and wherever they can have it, but, what is the incentive for a woman for a lot of women if not to have a really great orgasm.
My first year in College i was taking human sexuality as one of my classes, I always had no orgasm during sex, but I think a couple of clitoral orgasms, thats what made me wonder what is sex all about, The hornier I felt, I began to explore my body. Then I began buying toys. Wow, they worked. Well,(and i was horny a lot). so i began playing with toys and found out that the regular 6-inch didlo type of toy was that I could give myself a penetrating orgasm, many orgasms and/or hit the g-spot. but most men couldnt gave me the same felling i was getting. untill i met "My First" The first dude to actually do everything. we had made plan to go to the hotel and "EXPLORE our bodies" thats what he said... so we met up at the hotel and We started making love immediately after we entered the room. The lovemaking was fantastic! After we made love the first time, he brought out his present he had for me, His friend had taken him to the toy shop to get one like he used on his girlfriend. It's called a 'cyber flicker' or power mini-massager which is a toy somewhat like a bullet but made of a material that feels like a natural cock. What I love about it is the little flicker tail on the end that titillates and teases the clitoris. It can be found at some toy stores but definitely online. His friend said he had given his girlfriend 19 orgasms with this little toy. I had never had THAT many orgasms, many ten or so with my toys but I was game. My partner was a bit competitive and liked chance, so he was determined to beat his friends 19 orgasms. Well, to make a long story short, he stopped counting after I had over 20 orgasms. This little toy was great for multiple orgasms, too, which I had never had. After an exhausting evening of sex and orgasms, the next morning my friend was determined to give me multiple orgasms and since I have given them to myself. He used the cyber flicker, with his finger in my butt, and kept giving me orgasms one after the other. I kept asking him to stop and he said "sweetheart" just be still. It was difficult to have one orgasm after the next being so sensitive after just one, so you can imagine how I was feeling. But, then after about six or seven continuous orgasms, I had a multiple orgasm. It was sensational.So, back to the butt business - I had tried anal sex once and it was like trying to fit a baseball into a pinhole. Ouch! So, I wasn't ever particularly interested in trying it again. But, a finger up the butt felt pretty good and very sensual, after first fingering my butt hole nicely, he inserted this butt plug. I was so excited and horny. Then he inserted his cock in my vagina and he would stop and then start again, while holding an erection and fucking me amazingly. Then he said to me, try your little toy. I didn't know if I could reach, but I did and immediately had a great orgasm. I was so wet and weak as he kept fucking me. He kept sliding the butt plug in and out. I could barely stand the excitement. I started spasming and I guess squeezing his cock. I had the first orgasm with a man's cock fucking me and it was the best orgasm I've ever had.
pleaded with him to pull out because I couldn't stand it anymore. I don't know if I had an anal orgasm, a vaginal orgasm or maybe both. I collapsed on the bed for a long time as he finished his self off. Then he said "relax" as he came with control down my butt with his hot cum some seeping in. I was on fire again!
Sex has never been so good. It gets better and better. Remember when we were kids and couldn't ever picture our parents having sex. Well, for the lucky ones, toys enhance the experience to no end. There are so many great toys out there. Have fun and explore. I've shared with you my favorites. And, for those of you in sexless marriages, if your gal hasn't learned about her own body by experimenting with toys, buy her a few!

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